Frequently asked questions
We’re so excited to celebrated with you, and your presence on the day really is what matters most to us.
We‘ve lived together for years and are fortunate enough to already have everything we need for our home. If you would still like to mark the occasion with a gift, a contribution to our honeymoon fund would be gratefully received - we’re planning a special trip before diving into some exciting house renovations!
We kindly request no boxed gifts.
Demi Patterson
Acc No: 12765823
Sort Code: 60-83-71
We have an online shared album through GuestCam. You can find it on the Photos tab of this website. There’s no sign up or app download required.
We’d love to see your photos and videos from the events so please share!
Our professional photos from the Civil are up now and we will continue to share more!
Our caterers are aware of all dietary requirements which were submitted with RSVPs, please ask catering staff what is suitable for you to eat and let them know what you need. They are happy to make something that will be suitable for you. All of our menus already cater for vegetarian and meat eaters.
Please see the Travel tab on this website for details of cab companies in Norfolk. There is no Uber in the area so cabs will need to be pre-booked. The venue has parking along the drive as you enter along both sides.
For the Sangeet in Radlett, Uber is available. There is also plenty of parking at the venue.
We will play a mixture of English and Indian music throughout the events. For anyone wanting to familiarise themselves with music beforehand, here are some Spotify playlists:
Each event has dress code guidance, you are welcome to wear one outfit for the whole of each day or go all out and change from daytime to night. Indian attire is encouraged for those who want to wear it but please come in whatever makes you feel comfortable and feeling your best! See the Dress Code page for guidance and shopping recommendations.
For those changing between AM and PM, there will be a safe room for bags and getting ready. Please let us know in advance if you will need outfits kept in this room.
Note, there will be no specific break for changing and the events will carry on all day.
Civil Drinks: This evening celebration is adults-only.
Sangeet: Children are more than welcome at the sangeet, please let us know they're coming in your RSVP.
Wedding Weekend: While we’re keeping the celebration adults-only, we’ll have a few little ones joining us*. We appreciate your understanding and can’t wait for everyone to let their hair down!
*If your RSVP includes babies, please do let us know if there's anything we can provide or get set up for you. There will be a room available for a quiet space away and feeding, if needed. The house has fridges which are separate to the catering fridges so we are able to store anything you need for the day.
The Events page briefly describes what happens at each event. Over the wedding weekend, there will be more information to explain the meanings and traditions. On the wedding day, the Hindu priest will be explaining the ceremony in English.
As much as we love dogs, we regret to say that plus-pups are not permitted. However, our special guest of honour, Annie, will be joining us for parts of the civil and Indian celebrations!
All of our invites and RSVPs are done through this website, when you click on the RSVP link you can fill in a form to confirm attendance at each event and for each person in your couple or household, any plus ones will be included on your form.
Please confirm your attendance by 1st June 2025 and let us know if anything changes from when you first RSVP.
Link to RSVP - https://withjoy.com/alex-and-demi25